{"id":4024,"date":"2020-05-01T12:42:29","date_gmt":"2020-05-01T12:42:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/?p=4024"},"modified":"2024-04-20T17:55:13","modified_gmt":"2024-04-20T17:55:13","slug":"fun-facts-51-unfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/blog\/2020\/05\/01\/fun-facts-51-unfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"Fun Facts About English #51 &#8211; Friend"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" height=\"702\" width=\"702\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/051.jpg?resize=702%2C702&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Fun Facts About English 51 Kinney Brothers Publishing\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>So, when did <em>friend<\/em> become a verb?  Actually, it&#8217;s always been a verb!  The Old English word <em>fr\u0113ond<\/em> is a derivative and the present participle of the verb <em>fr\u0113ogan<\/em> which means \u201cto love or set free (in the slave sense).\u201d  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As it sometimes happens with language, the culture had a falling out with the verb until recently.  While many bemoan its social media context, it&#8217;s at least intriguing that <em>friend<\/em> as a verb possesses a lingual impulse to resurface like a colorful bauble in social waters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The verb wasn&#8217;t the only <em>friend<\/em> to be lost over time.  Old English had <em>freondsped<\/em> &#8220;an abundance of friends;&#8221; <em>freondleast<\/em> &#8220;a want of friends;&#8221; and <em>freondspedig<\/em> &#8220;rich in friends.&#8221;  Today, though the word <em>friendless<\/em> is common enough, saying someone is <em>friend-ful<\/em> may bring a conversation to a pause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-very-light-gray-background-color has-background\">&#8220;Friend they any, that flatter many?&#8221; &#8212; John Heywood, <em>Proverbs and Epigrams<\/em>, 1562<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If <em>friending<\/em> isn&#8217;t up for re-adoption in your book, there&#8217;s always <em>befriend<\/em> and <em>acquaint<\/em>; both perfectly good words though a bit stuffy.  I have to admit, the patty-cake feel of <em>making <\/em>friends or having a <em>bestie<\/em> doesn&#8217;t click with what I consider to be a complex and nuanced act of human bonding.  But, I&#8217;m older.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nevertheless, I&#8217;m going to expand my idea of <em>friending<\/em> and see if I can re-acquaint myself with an old book or take a walk down a friendly road.  Unlike fickle Facebook friends who will befoe one for the smallest difference, a familiar pathway has never un-friended me and a tree still offers its shade without a password.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-very-light-gray-background-color has-background\">&#8220;There the street is narrow, and may friend our purpose well.&#8221; &#8212; Thomas Southerne, <em>The Spartan Dame<\/em>, 1721<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you enjoyed this post, you might be interested in reading about the history of the word <a href=\"https:\/\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/blog\/2020\/03\/15\/fun-facts-50-hello\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">hello<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/blog\/2020\/09\/21\/fun-facts-74-dude\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dude<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/blog\/2020\/01\/03\/fun-facts-38-paddywhack\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">paddywhack<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/blog\/2021\/01\/31\/fun-facts-93-rooster\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">rooster<\/a>, or <a href=\"https:\/\/kinneybrothers.com\/blog\/blog\/2021\/01\/29\/fun-facts-91-jaywalker\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">jaywalking<\/a>!  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